...because I suck at Parcheesi

I was sitting at dinner with one of my friends this week and he mentioned how he was having trouble getting a man's attention whenever he's out in public. When I told him about all of the luck I had meeting fun and interesting guys recently, he was a little confused because he knows that I'm currently dating someone and meeting other men while you're dating someone is wrong (according to him).

There's a difference between me striking up a conversation with an attractive man in a bar and me spreading my legs for an attractive man in a bar. Just because I'm dating someone doesn't mean I should turn off the part of me that attracted him in the first place.

A sushi chef's knives are extremely important to his livelihood and he must never let them get dull. The same is true for a young gay Asian man living in Chicago. We have to maintain our wit and charm or else we become stale and boring just like all of the couples who invite you over to their place on Saturday nights to play Parcheesi and watch Tivoed episodes of Project Runway. It's hard enough for us to get guys to look at us in the first place, so why should we stop when we finally DO get one?

So for all of you who don't want to end up like that, I will offer some quirky and fun ways to get a man's attention in tomorrow's post. Have a sexy day!